TIPS FOR COUPLES ON TOGETHERNESS

TIPS FOR COUPLES ON TOGETHERNESS

There is an operation of togetherness that makes a couple to function in strength. Couples must learn to do the following together:

1. Sleep together - Irrespective of the number of rooms in your house, have a room that you and your spouse sleep together.
Do family planning, it is not a sin!


2. Talk together
Do not let your spouse be intimidated or afraid to talk out. Do not let your spouse feel stupid when he/she wants to talk to you. Let your spouse be free to express his/her mind in to you.
Do not get angry, learn to take unfavorable comments. Also learn how to use nice words to pass across unfavorable opinions. Make life comfortable for the other person.
If you have nothing to say, remember the good old days e.g. when you proposed, what the spouse was doing that day.
Always engage in anointed conversations: TALK INTO SOLUTIONS.
Do not keep malice, if you do not feel like talking with your wife, something is wrong; deal with it!

3. Eat Together
Food must be enjoyed, you can always learn how to cook better! Make use of the internet to learn; use google and Youtube
At least one meal a day on a well set table!
When the food is sweet, there will be good communication in the home
When the food is sweet, the bedroom becomes sweeter after dinner.

4. Play together
Don't do short syllable discussions.
Create an emotionally conducive environment in the house

5. Pray together
Pray in the Spirit together: Do not be praying in tongues whilst your wife is not baptized in the Holy Ghost

Whilst doing the above together,
- learn to give gifts and pleasant surprises to each other
- learn to protect each other from poison; use discretion to fence each other from harmful words.

BY REV OYENIKE AREOGUN